An Nawawi's 40 Hadith (7)

On the authority of Tamim Al-Dari that the Prophet(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said:

"Religion is sincerity[1]". We said: "To whom?" He said: "To Allah and His Book, and His Messenger, and to the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk".
Narrated by Muslim

[1] The Arabic word nasiha has a variety of meanings, the most common being "good advice", which is obviously unsuitable in the context. It also gives the meaning of "doing justice to a person or situation", "probity", "integrity, and the like.

Gift From The Heart

According to legend, a young man while roaming the desert came across a spring of delicious crystal-clear water. The water was so sweet he filled his leather canteen so he could bring some back to a tribal elder who had been his teacher. After a four-day journey he presented the water to the old man who took a deep drink, smiled warmly and thanked his student lavishly for the sweet water.

The young man returned to his village with a happy heart.Later, the teacher let another student taste the water. He spat it out, saying it was awful. It apparently had become stale because of the old leather container.

The student challenged his teacher: "Master, the water was foul. Why did you pretend to like it?"The teacher replied, "You only tasted the water. I tasted the gift. The water was simply the container for an act of loving-kindness and nothing could be sweeter."

I think we understand this lesson best when we receive innocent gifts of love from young children. Whether it's a ceramic tray or a macaroni bracelet, the natural and proper response is appreciation and expressed thankfulness because we love the idea within the gift.Gratitude doesn't always come naturally.

Unfortunately, most children and many adults value only the thing given rather than the feeling embodied in it. We should remind ourselves and teach our children about the beauty and purity of feelings and expressions of gratitude. After all, gifts from the heart are really gifts of the heart.

Control of Your Heart

A wise and understanding heart does not repay a hurt with a hurt. In doing so, the heart is diminished. Fissures form. Love leaks out. Every pain given in return for one received, changes the contents of the heart. It is no longer defined by love, wisdom and understanding. It is redefined by the bearers of hurt and hate, pain and prejudice, meanness and madness, sorrow and sadness. You give away control of your very own heart.

The despair of being hurt is healed by overcoming it, not clinging to the hurt and inflicting more of it on the world. When darkness is added to darkness, no one can see, no one can love. Everyone loses.

Love is not always warm and fuzzy. Sometimes it's the integrity we hold on to when we're tempted to strike back. Sometimes it's the honor that keeps us from exchanging the valuable contents of our heart for the harsh satisfaction of lashing back.
No, the way of love is not always easy, but when night falls, dawn is assured.

The integrity and honor of a wise and understanding heart, rises with the sun of a new day.

Living in love and loving life,

Beauty Tips

A dear old lady was asked what she used to make her complexion so beautiful and her whole being so bright and attractive.
She answered:

I use for my lips, truth

I use for my voice, kindness

I use for my ears, compassion

I use for my hands, charity

I use for my figure, uprightness

I use for my heart, love

I use for any who do not like me, prayer."

Seorang Guru Tua

Dialah pemberi paling setia
Tiap akar ilmu miliknya
Pelita dan lampu segala
Untuk manusia sebelum manjadi dewasa.

Dialah ibu dialah bapa juga sahabat
Alur kesetiaan mengalirkan nasihat
Pemimpin yang ditauliahkan segala umat
Seribu tahun katanya menjadi hikmat

Jika hari ini seorang Perdana Menteri berkuasa
Jika hari ini seorang Raja menaiki takhta
Jika hari ini seorang Presiden sebuah negara
Jika hari ini seorang ulama yang mulia
Jika hari ini seorang peguam menang bicara
Jika hari ini seorang penulis terkemuka
Jika hari ini siapa saja menjadi dewasa;
Sejarahnya dimulakan oleh seorang guru biasa

Dengan lembut sabarnya mengajar tulis-baca.
Di mana-mana dia berdiri di muka muridnya
Di sebuah sekolah mewah di Ibu Kota
Di bangunan tua sekolah Hulu Terengganu
Dia adalah guru mewakili seribu buku;
Semakin terpencil duduknya di ceruk desa
Semakin bererti tugasnya kepada negara.

Jadilah apa pun pada akhir kehidupanmu, guruku
Budi yang diapungkan di dulang ilmu
Panggilan keramat "cikgu" kekal terpahat
Menjadi kenangan ke akhir hayat.

Nukilan SN Dato Usman Awang

Happy Teacher's Day!

Tomorrow would be Teacher's Day. When we mention teachers, most of us would probably think teachers as in schools or lecturers in university. Teachers can be defined as someone who give us knowledge or experience, no matter how small it would be. Teachers? It can be our parents, our little sis, or even our friends.

Inshaallah, I 'll be posting articles bout teachers that we can share together. And Im taking this opportunity to wish all my teachers, from SRI Al-Amin Kemaman, SMKA Sheikh Abd Malek KT, and my lecturers here at UiTM.....

And also, our greatest of teacher, Prophet Muhammad pbuh, our beloved prophet...

HAPPY TEACHER'S DAY!

An Nawawi's 40 Hadith (6)

On the authority of Al-Numan bin Basheer, who said : I heard the Messenger of Allah(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) say :

"That which is lawful is plain and that which is unlawful is plain and between the two of them are doubtful matters about which not many people know. Thus he who avoids doubtful matters clears himself in regard to his religion and his honor, but he who falls into doubtful matters falls into that which is unlawful, like the shepherd who pastures around a sanctuary, all but grazing therein. Truly every king has a sanctuary, and truly Allah's sanctuary is His prohibitions. Truly in the body there is a morsel of flesh which, if it be whole, all the body is whole and which, if it be diseased, all of it is diseased. Truly it is the heart."

Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim

An Nawawi's 40 Hadiths (5)

On the authority of the Mother of the Faithful, Umm Abdullah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who said :
The Messenger of Allah(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said:

"He who innovates something in this matter of ours that is not of it will have it rejected."

Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim

And in one version by Muslim it reads :

"He who does an act which our matter is not [in agreement] with will have it rejected."

An Nawawi's 40 Hadith (4)

On the authority of Abdullah bin Masud, who said : the Messenger of Allah, and he is the truthful, the believed narrated to us :

"Verily the creation of each one of you is brought together in his mother's belly for forty days in the form of seed, then he is a clot of blood for a like period, then a morsel of flesh for a like period, then there is sent to him the angel who blows the breath of life into him and who is commanded about four matters[1]: to write down his means of livelihood[2], his life span, his actions, and whether happy or unhappy. By Allah, other than Whom there is no god, verily one of you behaves like the people of Paradise until there is but an arm's length between him and it, and that which has been written over takes him and so he behaves like the people of Hell-fire and thus he enters it; and one of you behaves like the people of Hell-fire until there is but an arm's length between him and it, and that which has been written over takes him and so he behaves like the people of Paradise and thus he enters it."

Related by Bukhari and Muslim
[1] Lit. "words". / [2] The Arabic word rizq also possesses such shades of meaning as "daily bread", "fortune", 'lot in life", "sustenance provided by Allah", etc.

My Dearest Mom

My Mother

My Mother,
my friend so dear
throughout my life you're always near.
A tender smile to guide my way
You're the sunshine to light my day.


M-O-T-H-E-R

"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" means only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold;
"E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
"R" means right, and right she'll always be,

Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER,"
A word that means the world to me.


What is a Mother?

A Mother has so many things to do,
From washing, ironing, cleaning to tying a shoe.
She scrubs, she mends, she cooks and sews,
She bathes the children and washes their clothes.
When they forget to wash their faces clean,
And their clothes are the muddiest you've ever seen,
Who repairs the clothes and scrubs them like new?
Of course, that is what a Mother will do.

Who becomes the doctor or the nurse when they are ill,
Applying a bandage or giving them a pill?
Who becomes a teacher when a child has homework?
She must never her duty shirk.
Who becomes a detective to find a toy or a book?
For missing things she must look and look?
Who becomes a listner to every heartache,
To every accompolishment that a child makes?
Who scolds their children when they are naughty,
Or remind them of God when they are to naughty?
Who tends her family with love and patience, too?
Of course that is what a Mother will do.


Mother.......

When you're a child she walks before you,
To set an example.

When you're a teenager she walks behind you
To be there should you need her.

When you're an adult she walks beside you
So that as two friends you can enjoy life together..

from: www.mothers.net

Mother's Day Specials

thanks to: iluvislam.com

An - Nawawi's 40 Hadith (3)

On the authority of Ibn Omar, the son of Omar bin Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with both, who said :

I heard the Messenger of Allah(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) say :

"Islam has been built on five [pillars]1: testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammed is the Messenger of Allah, performing the prayers, paying the Zakat[2], making the pilgrimage to the House[3], and fasting in Ramadhan."
Related by Bukhari and Muslim

Explanation:
[1] The word "pillars" does not appear in the Arabic but has been supplied for clarity of meaning. Pillars (arkan) is the generally accepted term in this context. / [2] See note [2] to Hadith 2. / [3] See note [3] to Hadith 2.

Divine Wonders

Quench spirit’s thirst
Satisfy soul’s hunger
Read the noble Quran
Be a part of divine wonder

It has wisdom in orders
It has knowledge in stories
Peace is its message
Having solution to worries

With its beam wants do not wander
With its shadow tongues do not waver
Countless are its benefits
A witness of Allah’s favor

Read it once, twice or thrice
It never loses its freshness
Strange tales never become old
As they stand proud in uniqueness

Lives stitched on its fabric
Homes built on its soil
Will be placed in best lands
An Honest reward for their toil

Killing the beast inside you
It brings out your purest form
Washing away waste desires
It clears obsolete norms

Never astray it will lead you
Nor wandering it will leave you
Hold on to its rope firmly; and
Your name will be in the ‘Few’.

The search man is involved in
End on its door,
Stepping into its world
He needs to search no more.

by Zoya Eitezaz Ahmed

An Nawawi's 40 Hadith (2)

On the authority of Omar(1), who said :

One day while we were sitting with the Messenger of Allah(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) there appeared before us a man whose clothes were exceedingly white and whose hair was exceedingly black; no signs of journeying were to be seen on him and none of us knew him. He walked up and sat down by the Prophet. Resting his knees against his and placing the palms of his hands on his thighs, he said:

"O Muhammed, tell me about Islam". The Messenger of Allah(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: "Islam is to testify that there is no god but Allah and Muhammed is the Messenger of Allah, to perform the prayers, to pay the Zakat(2), to fast in Ramadhan, and to make the pilgrimage to the House(3) if you are able to do so." He said: "You have spoken rightly", and we were amazed at him asking him and saying that he had spoken rightly.

He said:"Then tell me about Iman(4)."He said: "It is to believe in Allah, His angels, His books, His messengers, and the Last Day, and to believe in divine destiny, both the good and the evil thereof." He said: "You have spoken rightly".

He said: " Then tell me about ehsan(5)." He said: "It is to worship Allah as though you are seeing Him, and while you see Him not yet truly He sees you".

He said: "Then tell me about the Hour(6)". He said: "The one questioned about it knows no better than the questioner."

He said: "Then tell me about its signs." He said: "That the slave-girl will give birth to her mistress(7) and that you will see the barefooted, naked, destitute herdsman competing in constructing lofty buildings."

Then he took himself off and I stayed for a time. Then he said: "O Omar, do you know who the questioner was?" I said: "Allah and His Messenger know best". He said: "He was Jebreel (Gabriel), who came to you to teach you your religion."

Narrated by Muslim
Explanation:
[1] i.e Omar bin Al-Khattab, the second Caliph. / [2]Often rendered as "alms-tax" or "poor due", it is a tax levied on a man's wealth and distributed among the poor. / [3] The Ka'ba and Holy Mosque in Mecca. [4] Eman is generally rendered as "religious belief" or "faith". However, being a fundamental term in Islam, the Arabic word has been retained. [5] in this context the word ehsan has a special religious significance and any single rendering of it would be inadequate. Dictionary meanings for ehsan include "right action", "goodness" , "charity", "sincerity", and the like. The root also means "to master or be proficient at" and it is to be found in this meaning in Hadith 17 of the present collection. / [6] i.e. the Day of Judgement. / [7]This phrase is capable of more than one interpretation. Among those given by an-Nawawi in his commentary is that slave-girls will give birth to sons and daughters who will become free and so be the masters of those who bore them. The word ama, normally translated "slave girl", is also capable of meaning any woman in that we are all slaves or servants of God. The words are thus capable of bearing the meaning: "When a woman will give birth to her master" i.e. a time will come when children will have so little respect for their mothers that they will treat them like servants. The commentators point out there word rabba (mistress) includes the masculine rabb (master).

Jokes for future lawyers :)

Reported in the Massachusetts Bar Association Lawyers Journal, the following are questions actually asked of witnesses by attorneys during trials and, in certain cases, the responses given by insightful witnesses:

1. “Now doctor, isn’t it true that when a person dies in his sleep, he doesn’t know about it until the next morning?”

2. “The youngest son, the twenty-year old, how old is he?”

3. “Were you present when your picture was taken?”

4. “Were you alone or by yourself?”

5. “Was it you or your younger brother who was killed in the war?”

6. “Did he kill you?”

7. “How far apart were the vehicles at the time of the collision?”

8. “You were there until the time you left, is that true?”

9. “How many times have you committed suicide?”

10. Q: “So the date of conception (of the baby) was August 8th?”
A: “Yes.”
Q: “And what were you doing at that time?”

11. Q: “She had three children, right?”
A: “Yes.”
Q: “How many were boys?”
A: “None.”
Q: “Were there any girls?”

12. Q: “You say the stairs went down to the basement?”
A: “Yes.”
Q: “And these stairs, did they go up also?”

13. Q: “Mr. Slatery, you went on a rather elaborate honeymoon, didn’t you?
A: “I went to Europe, sir.”
Q: “And you took your new wife?”

14. Q: “How was your first marriage terminated?”
A: “By death.”
Q: “And by whose death was it terminated?”

15. Q: “Can you describe the individual?”
A: “He was about medium height and had a beard.”
Q: “Was this a male or female?”

16. Q: “Is your appearance here this morning pursuant to a deposition notice which I sent to your attorney?”
A: “No, this is how I dress when I go to work.”

17. Q: “Doctor, how many autopsies have you performed on dead people?”
A: “All my autopsies are performed on dead people.”

18. Q: “All your responses must be oral, OK? What school did you go to?”
A: “Oral.”19.
Q: “Do you recall the time that you examined the body?”
A: “The autopsy started around 8:30 p.m.”
Q: “And Mr. Dennington was dead at the time?”
A: “No, he was sitting on the table wondering why I was doing an autopsy.”

20. Q: “Are you qualified to give a urine sample?”
A: “I have been since early childhood.”

21. Q: “Doctor, before you performed the autopsy, did you check for a pulse?”
A: “No.”
Q: “Did you check for blood pressure?”
A: “No.”
Q: “Did you check for breathing?”
A: “No.”
Q: “So, then it is possible that the patient was alive when you began the autopsy?”
A: “No.”
Q: “How can you be so sure, doctor?”
A: “Because his brain was sitting on my desk in a jar.”
Q: “But could the patient have still been alive nevertheless?”
A: “It is possible that he could have been alive and practicing law somewhere.”

in memory, LWPO2D..

Just a Joke.. :)

A couple of New Jersey hunters are out in the woods when one of them falls to the ground. He doesn’t seem to be breathing, his eyes are rolled back in his head.

The other guy whips out his cell phone and calls the emergency services. He gasps to the operator: “My friend is dead! What can I do?”

The operator, in a calm soothing voice says: “Just take it easy. I can help. First, let’s make sure he’s dead.” There is a silence, then a shot is heard.

The guy’s voice comes back on the line. He says: “OK, now what?“

An - Nawawi's 40 Hadith

Assalamualaikum dear readers..
Inshaallah, every day or week so, I will post hadith, sourced by An Nawawi's 40 hadith..

1. On the authority of the Commander of the Faithful , Abu Hafs Omar bin Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, who said : I heard the Messenger of Allah salla Allah u alihi wa sallam say :

"Actions are but by intention and every man shall have but that which he intended. Thus he whose migration was for Allah and His Messenger, his migration was for Allah and His Messenger, and he whose migration was to achieve some worldly benefit or to take some woman in marriage, his migration was for that for which he migrated."

Related by Bukhari and Muslim

7 Wonders in Man

Man is aware about his inevitable death, yet he indulges in laughter and merriment.

Knowing that this world will come to an end, man still hankers after it.

Man knows that everything has been predestined yet he laments over the loss of something.

Man has been warned and has the full knowledge about the fire of hell but he continues to sin.

Man believes in the Reckoning of the hereafter but still he persists in amassing wealth.

Declaring his belief in the Unity and Oneness of Allah, yet man remembers others besides Allah.

Man believes in Jannah but still finds pleasure in the idle pursuit of this fleeting world.

5 Things to Reflect Upon..

You Muslims who are...

Desirous to drive large, shiny cars,
REMEMBER: You will be driven one day as a horizontal passenger.

Wild and crazy over expensive clothes,
REMEMBER: You will end up in just a 'KAFAN.'

Recklessly sacrificing everything to construct beautiful homes and palatial mansions,
REMEMBER: the graveyard 'PIT' - one's real home.

Greedily devouring tasty dishes and all types of extravagant delicacies,
REMEMBER: one day YOU will be the meal for ants, worms and other insects.

Aspiring for fame, fortune, and bright lights.
REMEMBER: the awaiting darkness and loneliness in the grave.

Exam Tips

Format of exam
Understand the format of the exam. Is section A compulsory to answer? Do you have a choice of 2 questions from 4 in Section B? Attempt all parts of the question. Even if you don't get the exact correct answer for A, attempt the other parts, examiners are looking for your ability to interpret and analyse your result as well.

Timing
Keep an eye on the time during the exam and ensure you don't spend too long on a particular question, otherwise it will only leave you less time for the others.

Presentation
Write neatly and leave white space (an empty line) between paragraphs/ points in your answer. This will make it easier for the examiner to mark and you'll find they are more ready to give 10 marks to 5 smaller spaced blocks of writing than 1 huge block of endless lines.

Reading
Read the requirements/ question first and then read any background or case data provided. This will give you a flavour for what is important and relevant in the text provided. Re-read the requirement and make sure you understand what is required from you. It's possible that in a panic to answer the question you fail to:
1. understand the question
2. fail to answer the question being asked

Understand what the wording of a question is trying to ask of you, e.g. state and explain, explain and critically evaluate. The word 'and' in such cases splits the requirement into 2 and the format of your answer could reflect this (e.g. state your point then explain, with reference to real life examples/ studies, or a sub-section to explain a theory and another sub-section to critically evaluate the theory).

Pay no attention to those around you who start writing within seconds of being told they can start the exam.

If you don't make answer plans at least note down a few words for points/ ideas on the question sheet. This may help jog your memory later, as you write the answer, for other points to include.
Practise of the method/s above and speed reading the text during your revision is invaluable.
Never, ever leave the exam room early! It's too late to add something you remember to your answer if you left the exam hall 10 minutes ago with an hour and a half of the exam left to go.
If you get stuck for ideas, go back and read over what you have already written. This way you recheck your answer as well as trying to jog your memory for any additional points to add.

After the exam
Don't analyse the exam with your friends, if as a result of this you realise a mistake you will only get yourself down, and its not like you can put it right anyway. You may actually think you did really well from talking to friends and this will just make you feel proud. Pride is not something you should have in Islam anyway, and you might just be setting yourself up for a fall when results come out.
Rather just walk away and spend a little time doing Hamd and Shukr to Allah swt that the exam went as well as it did.
Remember you've done your 'bit' now, turn to Allah in supplication and ask Him to grant you success for He alone is the All Powerful.

Daddy, can I have 10$?

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5 year old son waiting for him at the door.

"Daddy, may I ask you a question?"

"Yeah, sure, what is it?" replied the man.

"Daddy, how much money do you make an hour?"

"That's none of your business! What makes you ask such a thing?" the man said angrily.

"I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?" pleaded the little boy.

"If you must know, I make $20.00 an hour."

"Oh, " the little boy replied, head bowed. Looking up, he said, "Daddy, may I borrow $10.00 please?"

The father was furious. "If the only reason you want to know how much money I make is just so you can borrow some to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you're being so selfish. I work long, hard hours everyday and don't have time for such childish games."

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even madder about the little boy's questioning. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money. After an hour or so , the man had calmed down, and started to think he may have been a little hard on his son. May be there was something he really needed to buy with that $10.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

"Are you asleep son?" he asked.

"No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.

"I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier," said the man. "It's been a long day and I took my aggravation out on you. Here's that $10.00 you asked for."

The little boy sat straight up, beaming. "Oh, thank you daddy!" he yelled.

Then, reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some more crumpled up bills. The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at the man.

"Why did you want more money if you already had some?" the father grumbled.

"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied.

"Daddy, I have $20.00 now... Can I buy an hour of your time?"

Confusing English..

1. If Fed Ex and UPS were to be merge, would they call it Fed UP?

2. Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?

3. If olive oil comes from olives, where does baby oil came from?

4. If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland are called Holes?

5. Do infant enjoys infancy as much as adult enjoys adultry?

6. Why the men who invest all your money are called broker?

7. If horrific means horrible, does terrific means terrible?

8. Why is it called building when it is already built?

9. If vegetarians eat veggies, what do humanitarian eat? humans??

English is confusing? Think of it....

Rumput dan Kasih Sayang....

Pada suatu pagi di satu sekolah menengah, ada seorang pelajar lelaki bernama Rahim bertanya pada seorang cikgu bernama Aida yang sedang mengajar. Ketika itu, cikgu Aida tersebut sedang menyentuh mengenai kasih dan sayang secara am.Dialog diantara Rahim dan cikgu Aida tersebut berbunyi begini :

Rahim : Cikgu, macam mana kita nak pilih seseorang yang terbaik sebagai orang paling kita sayang?. Macamana juga kasih sayang itu nak berkekalan?

Cikgu Aida : Oh, kamu nak tahu ke?.Emmm...baiklah, sekarang kamu buat apa yang saya suruh. Ikut je ye...mungkin kamu akan dapat apa jawapannya.

Rahim : Baiklah...apa yang saya harus buat?

Cikgu Aida : Kamu pergi ke padang sekolah yang berada di luar kelas sekarang juga. Kamu berjalan di atas rumput di situ dan sambil memandang rumput di depan kamu, pilih mana yang PALING cantik tanpa menoleh ke belakang lagi walaupun sekali. Dan kamu petiklah rumput yang PALING cantik yang berada di depan kamu dan selepas itu bawa balik ke kelas.

Rahim : Ok. Saya pergi sekarang dan buat apa yang cikgu suruh. Apabila pelajar tersebut balik semula kekelas, tiada pun rumput yang berada di tangannya. Maka cikgu pun bertanya kepada pelajar tersebut.

Cikgu Aida : Mana rumput yang cikgu suruh petik?

Rahim : Oh, tadi saya berjalan di atas rumput dan sambil memandang rumput yang berada di situ, saya carilah rumput yang paling cantik. Memang ada banyak yang cantik tapi cikgu kata petik yang paling cantik maka saya pun terus berjalan ke depan sambil mencari yang paling cantik tanpa menoleh ke belakang lagi. Tapi sampai di penghujung padang, saya tak jumpa pun yang paling cantik. Mungkin ada di antara yang dibelakang saya sebelum itu tapi dah cikgu cakap tak boleh menoleh ke belakang semula, jadi tiadalah rumput yang saya boleh petik.

Cikgu Aida : Ya, itulah jawapannya. Maknanya, apabila kita telah berjumpa dengan seseorang yang kita sayang, janganlah kita hendak mencari lagi yang lebih baik daripada itu. Kita patut hargai orang yang berada di depan kita sebaik-baiknya. Janganlah kita menoleh ke belakang lagi kerana yang berlaku tetap dah berlaku. Dan semoga yang berlalu tidak lagi berulang. Jika kita berselisih faham dengan orang yang kita sayang itu, kitaboleh perbetulkan keadaan dan cuba teruskan perhubungan tersebut walaupun banyak perkara yang menggugat perhubungan tersebut.

Dan ingatlah orang yang kita sayang itulah kita jumpa paling cantik dan paling baik pada MULAnya walaupun nak ikutkan banyak lagi yang cantik dan baik seperti rumput tadi. KECUALILAH jika perhubungan tersebut tak boleh diselamatkan lagi, maka barulah kita mulakan sekali lagi. Maka sayangilah orang yang berada di depan kita dengan tulus dan ikhlas.Maka, bersyukurlah dengan kasih-sayang yang kau terima pada hari ini,kerana jika kau meninggalkannya, mungkin kasih sayang itu tidak akan kembali seperti sediakala. Sedarlah wahai insan, kasih sayang ALLAH itulah yang paling hakiki, jika kau memalingkan dirimu dari kasihNya,maka kamulah serugi-rugi manusia.